Resources on Sex, Intimacy, & Relationships

CONTINUE LEARNING

Books, organizations, and support I often recommend. If you are not ready to commit to sessions, this is a great place to start.

Books on desire, intimacy, & connection

WHAT COUPLES THERAPY ADDRESSES

The books I love and recommend most often to clients.

Come As You Are

Emily Nagoski - the science of sexual desire and breaking the limits of what “normal” means for each individual.

Mating In Captivity

Ester Perel - a guide on how to sustain desire and eroticism within a long-term committed relationship.

The Ethical Slut

Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton - a foundational guide to non-monogamy and open relationships.

Poly Secure Workbook

Jessica Fern - A practical workbook to encourage examination of attachment.

Hold Me Tight

Dr. Sue Johnson - the foundational text of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples.

The Origin of You

Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton - a foundational guide to non-monogamy and open relationships.

Directories, training bodies & advocacy groups

TRUSTED ORGANIZATIONS

AASECT

The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. This is the leading certifying body for sex therapists.

Visit AASECT

WPATH

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health. This is the standard for care for transgender health.

VISIT WPATH

RECOMMENDED IN SESSION

Intimacy and Pleasure Resources

OMGYES

An honest, membership based, online technique library to increase pleasure and intimacy.

VISIT OMGYES

SheBop

Female owned sex toy boutique located local in Portland, OR. Offering toys, workshops, books, and more

VISIT SHEBOP

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